WEDNESDAYS WITH DENISE: January 10, 2024

Lately I have been with obsessed with the sonnet—all it can hold within those 14 lines. So many variations of the sonnet (Coleman, Hayes, Hamby, just to name a few!)…Enter Aaron Smith who uses the same end word—sissy—all the way through….

Sissy

I can’t remember my dad calling me a sissy, 
but he definitely told me not to be a sissy. 
I secretly (or not so secretly) liked all the sissy 
things. We had a hunting dog named Sissy. 
Really: Sissy. My father nicknamed my sister: Sissy. 
Still, he says, “How’s Sissy?” and calls her Sissy 
when she goes home to visit him. Belinda (Sissy) 
is one of the toughest people I know. My sissy 
(sister) has kicked someone’s ass, which isn’t sissy- 
ish, I guess, though I want to redefine sissy 
into something fabulous, tough, tender, “sissy- 
tough.” Drag queens are damn tough and sissies. 
I’m pretty fucking tough and a big, big sissy, 
too. And kind. Tough and kind and happy: a sissy.

You can hear Aaron read the poem here:

https://poets.org/poem/sissy

Jan 10